Friday, May 28, 2010

But I havent seen a change

Relationships, relationships, relationships. Before you were in a relationship with your significant who were you? Have you lost yourself in this "oh so perfect relationship" you're in? Or are you one of those people that complain about what your partner is not doing up to your standard. If you have a certain standard and he/she isnt living up to it then you should let them go because you are only waisting his/her and your own time. 

This is directed to the females. You say he isnt a man and he needs to grow up and stop acting like a little kid. What is a man to you? Explain that to him so that he can have an uunderstand or some type of idea. But I thought when you are in a relationship that you are supposed to take the person as they are and not try to mold them into what yo want them to be. If you are trying to do that then it speaks highly about the type of person you are and what type of man/guy you are looking for. And stop looking for his old habits to die fast. Old habits die hard and slow. Its a slow death and if you arent willing to stay around  for the long run then leave. Did youu ever take the time to look at yourself and all the things you could work on your damn self. At a certain age, we expect men to be grown and handle their lives and be ready to seriously be mature. People are going to do what they want to do. If they dont want to take the steps in order to be mature and grow into a better person then honestly there is nothing you can do. But if he is trying, who are you to knock him down when he is already on the ground. Change takes time. You nor him can change that fact.

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